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5 Tips To Improve Willpower

Struggling to stay on track?

When we’re trying to achieve our goals, it can sometimes feel like we’re constantly fighting ourselves. For example, when we’re on a diet, we might feel like we have to fight the urge to order dessert, or if we’re on an exercise training programme, we have to force ourselves to get up off the sofa and go for a run.

We call this ‘willpower’.


Willpower is like a muscle – it’s not something that you have automatically, rather it’s something you have to train yourself to be able to do. It’s much easier to lie on the sofa watching TV than to go for 10 km run, but we force ourselves to do it because we know it’s good for us. If willpower were an innate ability, everyone would be able to get up off the sofa, but we know that’s not the case.

Plenty of people don’t force themselves to exercise because they don’t like it, or it’s hard – simply put, their ‘willpower’ isn’t strong enough to make them do something they don’t like, even if they know and want the long term benefits. This is not to imply that everyone should exercise (indeed, for some people it’s not safe to do certain things), or that anyone who doesn’t do it is lazy or weak – no one should be forced to do something they don’t want to even if it’s good for them. Rather, willpower is not an innate ability – it’s something that you have to work on.

So how can we improve willpower when it’s not as strong as we’d like it to be, or if we’re struggling to reach our goals?

1. Imagine Your Success

When building willpower, your imagination can be a powerful tool.

Whatever your goal, the temptation to stray from the path you’ve set yourself will come up along the way – so be prepared for it. Instead of ignoring the craving or temptation, address it. If you can imagine yourself as you will be when you achieve your goal, you’ll stimulate your desire to achieve it, which can help you overrule the temptation to ‘cheat’.


2. Diversion Tactics

No matter how hard we try, often negative thoughts can creep up on us. This is the little voice that tells us we ‘can’t’, that we’re ‘weak’, and that we should ‘just give up now’. One trick to improve willpower in the face of these thoughts is to train yourself to respond to them by focusing on something else. If every time you realise you’re thinking this way, you think of something that makes you happy, eventually it will become an instinctive response to distract you from your negativity.


3. Build Good Habits

Habits are notoriously difficult to break, so if you can form good ones when you’re feeling strong, it’s going to be easier to keep going when you feel like you want to give up!


4. Set Realistic Goals

It’s easy to get caught up in your ‘big picture’, overall goal, but often focusing on that might not be the best approach. Your end goal can often seem too far away or unattainable, particularly in moments when you’re not feeling as dedicated as you’d like. Instead, if you set smaller, more achievable targets, taking it one step at a time, you may find it easier to stay on track. For example, losing 1lb a week is easier than ‘losing 2 stone’.


5. Don’t Give Up When You Slip

This is the most important point on this list.

It’s so easy to feel like we’ve failed when we have a day where we don’t meet our own expectations, and it can be tempting to give up altogether. Diets are famous for this – you’re ‘good’ all week, then binge at the weekend and give up because you feel like you’ve undone all that good work.

No one is good all the time. Everyone has days where they don’t meet their goals. What separates the successful is that they don’t give up each time they mess up. They pick themselves up, promise to try again tomorrow, and set themselves back on track.

In the words of Scarlet O’Hara, tomorrow is another day.

Sleep Well: Tips to Improve Sleep

Most of us don’t get enough, good quality sleep – and it’s well known that this has a negative effect on our mental health and physical health.

When we don’t sleep well, our brains struggle to function properly, which exacerbates conditions such as depression and anxiety. Our bodies too suffer the ill effects of bad sleep, making us more susceptible to illness, lowering our pain thresholds, and affecting our diet and exercise choices, leading to potential problems with our weight.

So, with all this information telling us to improve sleep, the only question that remains is: how do we do it?

Handsome guy sleeps in his bed.


Tip One: Control Your Sleep Environment

If you’re going to get good sleep, you need to have a good place to do it!

  • Keep your bed for sleep and sex – if it’s a space set aside for those things, your brain will find it easier to switch off in that environment
  • Block out light – invest in some thick curtains, and turn off any devices that emit light (that includes phones, tablets and backlit e-readers!)
  • Make sure your bed is comfortable for you – so this means a supportive mattress, the right number of pillows for you, and enough room to move in your sleep without causing problems
  • Bed time is quiet time – if you can’t block out all noise due to noisy neighbours or traffic, invest in some ear plugs to keep your sleep undisturbed
  • Make sure the temperature of the room is right – while the image of a nice warm bed is probably the most inviting, it might not be the best for sleep. Our body temperature drops when we sleep, so a nice cool environment encourages better sleep


Beautiful young woman sleeping in bed

Tip Two: Build Better Habits

If you’re in the habit of going to bed at a certain time, it will make it easier to get a good night’s rest consistently!

  • Have a bed time – humans are creatures of habit, so going to bed at the same time every day (around 7-8 hours before you need to get up) will help you maintain a good sleep pattern
  • And to that end, try not to sleep in at the weekend – if you keep a good pattern at the weekend, you won’t have that jet-lagged feeling on Monday morning!
  • Late nights happen, so if you’re going to an event take a controlled afternoon nap rather than sleeping in the day after. This way, you decrease your sleep deficit without interrupting that rhythm you’ve built up


Cute little ginger kitten is sleeping in soft blanket on wooden

Tip Three: Be Smart About Diet and Exercise

We all know healthy habits make for healthier minds and bodies (even if we ignore that advice now and again), but there are specific things to take into account when it comes to sleep.

  • Cut the caffeine – I’m not going to tell you to skip your morning coffee, and we all know that caffeine is a stimulant and not conducive to good sleep.  But did you know that caffeine can still be having an effect on your body up to 12 hours after consumption?
  • Studies have shown that those who undertake regular exercise have better sleep, although it can take up to several months for the benefits to take hold. Just make sure you don’t exercise from about 3 hours before you sleep to allow your body to cool down
  • Avoid having big meals late at night – leave at least two hours between eating heavy or rich foods before going to sleep to avoid disruption due to heartburn or stomach trouble.
  • And similarly, don’t drink too much in the evening  – this point is actually twofold. Firstly, avoid consuming too much of any liquid, as you don’t want to interrupt your sleep by needing the bathroom in the night. Secondly, while a nightcap might seem like a good idea to help you relax, alcohol consumption leads to poor quality sleep after you’ve nodded off.

5 Ways To Be More Confident!

Are you unsure of yourself?

Do you want to take control, and look and feel more confident?

This easy guide will tell you in 5 simple steps some tricks of the trade to help convince other people (and yourself) that you’re confident, strong and capable!



superhero businessman looking at city skyline at sunset. the concept of success, leadership and victory in business.


  1. Act It! If you’re not feeling confident, your body language can give you away. So sit up straight, hold your head up high, slap on a smile, and look the person you’re talking to in the eye! Top Tip: If that makes you nervous, focus your gaze on the space between their eyebrows to give the illusion of direct eye contact!

2. Dress Up! You need clothing that makes you feel good and looks professional. If you’re in clothes in which you know you look good, it will help you feel it.

3. Talk The Talk! Concentrate on speaking confidently: keep a measured pace, an even tone, and don’t break the flow with lots of ‘um’s and ‘ah’s. Instead of those little interjections, leave a pause while you gather your next sentence – it gives greater emphasis on what you’ve just said and comes across 10x more confident and authoritative!



4. Walk The Walk! Actions speak louder than words, so take the plunge and be the one to take action! Be the one to offer a solution to a problem, be the one who volunteers for a project, or be the one who approaches a stranger at a networking event! If you do it often enough it will become second nature.

5. Fake It ‘Til You Make It! Put all these techniques into practice, and you’ll seen that if you can convince others that you’re confident and capable, you’ll start to believe it to, and then you really will be more confident!

Chrysalis Placements: What Help Is There?

Applying for Chrysalis placements can be a daunting experience: it’s just like applying for a job.

When studying with Chrysalis, you’re not alone – we can help you find the perfect placement, all you have to do is ask!

What We Can Do:

1) We can supply in depth information about the course so that the placement provider understands what you are studying and the requirements of the course. This means that you’re less likely to end up on a placement that’s not suitable due to miscommunication or misunderstanding on the part of the provider – we’ll make sure they know what you need from them!

2) If the placement provider requires further information to this, Chrysalis can arrange for a member of the Chrysalis team to contact the placement to talk through the requirements. If they’ve got questions, we can handle them for you so that you can be confident that the placement you undertake will definitely fit the requirements of the course, and you won’t waste your time.

3) Chrysalis are currently collating a list of placements, which get published on our website with information on how to apply. We’re also looking to launch a student space on the website, where ads will be published. Of course, you can find your own placement, but if you apply to any on our list, you’ll know you’re doing an appropriate course straight away (and negate the need for items 1 & 2 in this list – Bonus!).

4) For Autumn 2016 Chrysalis will produce a guide on finding a placement with all of the top tips to help you find your ideal placement provider. If you’re not sure where to begin when it comes to finding your placement, you’ll be able to check out our handy guide for all the advice you’ll need.

Please remember that it is down to the student to find a placement. We can help out, but we can’t be there in your interview!

If you have any questions then please feel free to get in touch via email or phone, and one of our helpful team will give you all the advice you’ll need.

Chrysalis Courses Reports On Mental Health Meeting in Reading

Chrysalis Courses reports on the growing awareness throughout the UK on the growing impact on mental health and this was highlighted at a meeting that took place in Reading.

The youth cabinet in Reading attended a meeting where two of their members Jen Young and Connor Nolan made a presentation to experts in education and in mental health from both the Council and the NHS.

Since 2012 the youth cabinet have been campaigning on a variety of different issues within mental health, including influencing changes to council improvement plans, holding an event last November and a new mental health treaty which four new schools have signed up to.

What have the youth cabinet got planned this year?

  1. Identifying gaps in service provision
  2. Ensuring an awareness of and accessibility to existing services
  3. Supporting initiatives such as the School Link project
  4. Continued work around the Mental Health Treaty

Chrysalis Courses believes in the work that the youth cabinet is undertaking but it does ask the question why the youth cabinet in Reading are having to work so hard in making sure that the provision is available?

This is because there is a shortage in counsellors both paid and volunteer, Chrysalis Courses students who are completing the Chrysalis Level 4 Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling, have access to a wide range of placement providers, including Place2Be, who work within schools offering counselling to both pupils and their parents.

If a counselling course is something you are considering then please visit


Referenced Article by Linda Fort.

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